I have the Bose QC II I haven't updated to the latest firmware because apparently it nerfs the ANC and increases the sensation you're speaking of.

https://www.reddit.com/r/headphones/comments/c4tvkw/psa_do_n...

Compared with a coworker who updated his. This issues appears to be valid. Even bose has been sending engineers to peoples homes to test in their environment. Just an FYI