I've worked on a team that had amazing retros: lots of difficult discussions that resulted in change. We also made sure to discuss positive things too to ensure they keep happening. I think a lot of people miss this about retro.
I also worked on a team with terrible retros. The "good" column would always be extremely long and was only full of platitudes, nothing of actual substance that was brought forward into the next week. If anything difficult came up, someone would say, "Ok, let's book a meeting to talk about this later". It was an extreme misunderstanding of the value of retros. Though everyone else seemed to enjoy them so that's arguably valuable? I dunno.
Anyway, yes, lots has been said on this topic in the past. SCRUM is just Agile for stakeholders. There is the whole "SCRUM But" joke but I actually think a bunch of things in SCRUM are valuable BUT if something isn't working out, don't do it! I get the impression that lots of companies just do all the rituals "because SCRUM" and don't actually understand why they are doing them. Case in point, I was at a company that would always spend time story-pointing but no one ever looked at them. Not the teams and not the stakeholders.
I also worked on a team with terrible retros. The "good" column would always be extremely long and was only full of platitudes, nothing of actual substance that was brought forward into the next week. If anything difficult came up, someone would say, "Ok, let's book a meeting to talk about this later". It was an extreme misunderstanding of the value of retros. Though everyone else seemed to enjoy them so that's arguably valuable? I dunno.
Anyway, yes, lots has been said on this topic in the past. SCRUM is just Agile for stakeholders. There is the whole "SCRUM But" joke but I actually think a bunch of things in SCRUM are valuable BUT if something isn't working out, don't do it! I get the impression that lots of companies just do all the rituals "because SCRUM" and don't actually understand why they are doing them. Case in point, I was at a company that would always spend time story-pointing but no one ever looked at them. Not the teams and not the stakeholders.