The original motivation for putting it into the standard library is so the 'go' command can use it, to watch the filesystem and know what needs to be rebuilt before you even run "go install" or "go build".
Fsnotify will probably make it into the standard library or other core golang repository at some point, given that it could help speed up the compiler. However there's nothing particularly mystical about it that prevents a 3rd party library from being just as good.